Just recently, I purchased a trip to the Riviera Mayan in Mexico. I told myself I was going to bite the bullet and take a long trip to Mexico. I use to travel all the time, mostly I went solo, because going with someone can sometimes make your trip complicated. Your more approachable when your solo. But, the negative thoughts kept interrupting my positive ones. To stop these thought patterns I cancelled my trip and lost my deposit.
I made another reservation to drive to the North Carolina Mountains at the end of the mountain and it took a long time to decide. Now, I’m thinking of all the reasons not to go. Am I going to get lost driving; with my hip problem will I be able to hike; is there all couples? I try to keep positive thoughts, but those negative thoughts keep interrupting.
All I can say is negative thoughts can ruin your life. You can lose money and respect. I’ve got to stop the thoughts from my traumatic life and move on.
My mom 89 is the greatest. She always tells me,”I don’t care or worry about anything – I can’t even remember what I was negative about. My life is too short to to ruin the rest of my life with too much negativity.”