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I have been experiencing a lot of physical problems, but maybe it’s all in my head. That’s the way the doctors make me feel when I tell them about my issues.
I’ve been experiencing headaches, dizziness, fading out, falling, unbalanced, shortness of breath, heart beating rapidly, and my hip-joint pain. Did I mentioned Vertigo? The doctors just say it’s the medication I take. That’s good so why do you give them to me?
It just seems that doctors don’t care anymore. Or, may since I’m a senior they think it’s all in my head. Could it be? Sometimes I think it is, but I know me better then they do. I’m just about to give up on doctors. I’m tired of them making me feel worse before I got to the appointment. It’s a horrible feeling when there’s no one listening or willing to help.
At a bad time in my life, I was hinting to family and friends about the way I was feeling – hurt, lonely and depressed. I lost my long relationship and my son went in the army for 6 years. I was scared and alone. They didn’t hear me. I started binge drinking and attempted suicide. I just didn’t care anymore. I went to rehab for 6 weeks and it was the worse experience I ever had. All they do is drug you up so you want cause any trouble.
5 years ago I stopped drinking and smoking – cold turkey. Looking back, I now know it was a God thing. He intervened and saved me. That’s one of the things I have found good in my life is finding God again. Although, I looked to him in the past, I never really felt he heard me. Now I do. Besides the the physical ailments. My soul is feeling good.
We should understand that God’s purpose for you will be revealed to you overtime. God will reveal to you in his own time and place. Be looking for him.
For the last six months I’ve had feelings of anger and frustration that are so deep it makes me sick. I feel like people use me and that’s causes anger. I feel like people don’t care if I live or die. I have no friends. I feel like I need gratification. I feel useless and not needed.
The only friends I have are on Facebook. Are they truly friends? No one calls me or asks to go out to dinner with the girls. I feel like they don’t want to be around me. I’ve lived here for about 3 years and can’t development close friendships. Everyone seems to have their own private life. It’s hard to pick up female relationships since they are already in their female group. And as far as men I’m not comfortable around them. The only time someone is a friend is when they want something like a photography shoot per sie. They want something for free and that tics me off.
I’ve started distancing myself from people , because I don’t want to deal with the bad emotions I feel.- I can’t talk to them about Bipolar because they’ll runaway. I’m crazy they think. I haven’t been in a true loving relation since I was 24, now 61. I didn’t want to endure anymore pain in my life. So I’m alone.
Everyday seems like a test. Each morning I wake not knowing what to expect. Is my mom my mother or is she someone I don’t know? Is dad who he is or someone I don’t know? Am I me or someone I don’t know? That’s how it is everyday on the wake of a new sunrise – who am I. The problem is no one knows.
Yesterday, Dad and I went to the store and bought some flowers and other items. The one thing we did get was a hanging basket for mom to put in front of her kitchen window. That way she can look out and see it. When we got home she was so happy about it.
Later that afternoon dad went to hang it up and asked me what height he should hang it. I said, “Well, I think Mom should answer that question.” I went and got mom and told her dad was hanging her basket. She got up smiling and went to tell dad that she wanted it a little higher. I didn’t hear the answer, but mom came through the door slamming it and looked, well pissed. I asked, “What’s the matter?” She replied that Dad said, It’s fine. Your daughter said it was fine.” Then she pushed me aside and went to her room. Of course, I went to find out what was the matter. She said, “He said no matter it’s okay. He only cares about you!”
I was so shocked! Upset that my mom accused dad pf favoring me. She was jealous of our relationship. I felt like I was in a soap opera. I said, “Mom, I can’t believe you just said that. Why are you mad at me?” “I’m not mad at you,” she told me. “Then what?”, I said She looked at me with this really scrunched up face and start to cry. I could tell it was a fake cry. She started rambling don’t you come in here and tell me that I said this and that! I was like I’m not going to listen to this. You’re not you. And she wasn’t.
I went to my room hoping that the next morning she wouldn’t remember.
It came true. She didn’t remember. In fact, she was happy go lucky. But that only lasted for about 3 hours. I cooked breakfast for the both of them and was hoping we would have a nice day. Instead, mom slept in bed all day. Dad watched TV, and I stayed in my room writing and adding new items to my eBay store.